Lady Tanner (Relationship Counselling)

  I saw this funny quote above and thought, hmmn!  While I don't agree that silence means she's plotting your death, I quite agree that the talks and talks and dripping talks are because she cares. Have you ever thought of it that way? My wife complains about this because she wants me to change. She "nags" the children because she wants them to be better. She "nags" because she is stressed and is hoping I'll notice her and assist her or give her a hug. How about we change tactics and give her a hug or a kiss to shut her up when she's "nagging" instead of getting exasperated. Your response to the "nags" can make a whole lot of difference. View it as a show of love for a change, respond to it that way and let's see what happens. Give her a hug; Pat her on the head; Give her a kiss; Tell her it's okay; Ask her what she needs or wants; Hug her, look into her eyes and get her to look into yours as you speak with her. The drips ...

  Aarrgh! The frustrating, headache-inducing sounds of nagging. We both live in the same house, sleep on the same bed so therem's no running from it. There's always another way to handle things. It doesn't always have to be my way or the highway. The better way is to focus on the good, praise the good often and when you see the not so good, you calmly and lovingly address it. Address the issues with the aim to improve the situation/matter without degrading the image/esteem of the person that is concerned. You can always point out things that you want changed nicely and be ready to do it gently and repeatedly without being too pushful. "Be gracious in your speech. The goal is to bring out the best in others in a conversation, not put them down, not cut them out. Colossians 4:5‭-‬6 MSG Love is always a choice...🤗 For relationship counseling, talktoladyt@gmail.com #love #relationships #dating #marriage #homes #spouse #husband #wife #choices #godlymarriage #strongmarriage...

Ever heard that a happy marriage is a union of two good forgivers? To have a blissful marriage, you must be ready to forgive everyday till death do you part, because no one else will offend you as much as your spouse. Unforgiveness is poisonous to your spiritual, mental and physical health. Choose health, choose life, choose freedom, choose peace, choose love, choose to forgive. “Lord, how often should I forgive someone who sins against me? Seven times?” “No, not seven times,” Jesus replied, “but seventy times seven! Matthew 18:21‭-‬22 NLT Dear husband, And to the husbands, you are to demonstrate love for your wives with the same tender devotion that Christ demonstrated to us, his bride. For he died for us, sacrificing himself Ephesians 5:25 TPT But God clearly shows and proves His own love for us, by the fact that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us. Romans 5:8 AMP Dear wife, Lay aside bitter words, temper tantrums, revenge, profanity, and insults. But instead be kind and ...