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Illicit Sex is the best ...

 No one will know... I can't help myself, I just have to... I'm not the only one doing it... God will forgive me... The different reasons we mentally give ourselves, when faced with the temptations to cheat on our spouses. It's some minutes of unmatched and exciting pleasure... because stolen waters are sweet. But are we really ready for the consequences that follow, after we're down from the high of ecstasy? Are we really ready to lose the trust of our spouses, the peace in our homes, the love in the eyes of our spouses, the respect of our children? Even the money in our pockets, trying to "keep" 2 or more lives? Infidelity can be a serious hassle, one that the pressure in our *** at those times isn't helping us to calculate. Before you steal that water, STOP and count the cost. ‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭9:17‭-‬18‬ ‭TPT‬‬ [17] “Illicit sex is the best sex of all. Our secret affair will be sweeter than all others.” [18] Little do they know when they answer her call th...

Don't be quick to jump on the wagon!

In these days of trends and the allure to jump on the speedily greying moral wagon, we have to keep our "God compass" intact. I personally prefer to watch Korean or Asian series over their nollywood counterparts because they generally have better moral values. I remember a few years back, a new series titled "the world of the married" was trending and someone suggested I watch it. That in fact, it was a remake of another series..it was so good, it had different remakes. I started it and of course the 1st episode would suck you in, but by the 2nd or 3rd episode (not even sure I made it that far), I had to stop. Not because it was boring...oh the intrigue was strong but because it was going to sow huge seeds of distrust in me for my husband. If I remember correctly, episode 1 ended with the wife discovering that her faithful husband had a very active extramarital affair and everyone was aware except her or so. As I watched, I kept thinking about my husband and wonderi...

Let me help you with the dishes

You know what your spouse will want you to do to show them that you care, see them and love them. The decision to actually do it is yours and those choices made over time determine where your marriage is headed. Selflessness is key to the success of your marriage. Put yourself aside and choose to put a smile on the face and in the heart of your spouse today and everyday. Credit your love account with your expression of love through acts of service for your partner. A better society starts with better homes. Let's build great marriages. Love is always a choice...🤗 For relationship counseling, talktoladyt@gmail.com #love #relationships #dating #marriage #homes #spouse #husband #wife #choices #godlymarriage #strongmarriage #bettertogether #premaritalcounseling #maritalcounseling #marriageadvice #strongermarriage