One of the fastest ways to be disgruntled in your relationship is to compare yours with others. No two people or circumstances are the same, even twins have differences. Yorubas say "a ki fi ago alago sare" meaning you don't run your race using someone else's time. So they got married before you.... rejoice with them They had children before you ... your time is coming They bought their houses before yours... there's still time They got the PR before you, even though you started your process before them... all things are working together for your good. The moment you scroll IG or catch yourself thinking about what others have and you don't or how a certain spouse seems better than yours, or how certain children are high flyers... don't go down the road of self pity, complaints and ingratitude. Instead rejoice. Thank God for who you are, what He gave you and where He has placed you. If you think adjustments need to be made, by all means make them, but not ...
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