Lady Tanner (Relationship Counselling)

When you excitedly made the vows those years ago, this is what you were signing up for..."a ti le po" meaning, we are stuck together. Let's use this coin. It has 2 different faces, designs characters, etc, but you cannot separate the 2 sides from each other. They are stuck. The only way to separate this coin, is to destroy it. That's what happens when we think we can go our separate ways, we destroy the union of 1. You must come to terms with the fact that you and your spouse are two different people, however, you have been joined to become an inseparable unit. ‭ "From then on, they are no longer two, but united as one. So what God unites let no one divide!” Matthew 19:6 TPT‬ It's because you think you're the one that joined you together that you think you can break up your marriage. God joined you together, honour Him by staying together. So, treat your spouse well. Treat your other side with love, care and acceptance. Make the best of your similarities ...

 The rate at which prices have been skyrocketing in Nigeria in the past few months....our source can be none other than God. God makes provision through man and how man manages the resources God gives to him is very crucial.  The husband has a primary responsibility to provide for the home, so while his income might not change in this period, the wife has to spend with knowledge and understanding. How can we make these better financial decisions at this time? - Both husband and wife should be totally transparent about the state of their finances. This way, the wife knows how much she can spend without putting the husband in debt - Create a budget for shopping and restrain yourself from going overboard by more than a maximum of 5/10%. We know sometimes you'd spend more than you planned but have limits please. - Look for alternatives to your regular items. E.g, if you usually buy an imported version of a product and the dollar rate is making it very pricey, look for a good Niger...