Marriage is like a Garden

Beauty takes some effort. Removing the bad and maintaining or improving on the good.

A marriage is like a garden. To have a beautiful garden, takes nuturing and weeding.

Nurture your marriage with a great attitude, appreciation, love, commitment, positive disposition, etc. When you see the bad, weed them. The saying goes that we do not throw away the baby with the bath water.

Remove the weed (issues), not the flowers (spouse), because even if you hop from spouse to spouse or relationship to relationship, if the issues in you are still there, the garden would always be ugly.

Work on being a better you, encourage, help and pray for your spouse to be a better them.

Nurture your relationship, tend your garden and watch it blossom.

Love is always a choice...🤗

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