Naked and not Ashamed

Do you stroll nakedly in the presence of your spouse or you still switch off the lights so they don't see "your" body?

Does your spouse know your financial, mental, health, academic, social, etc situation or do you still hide certain details and keep secrets?

Do you see yourself as one with your spouse or two separate individuals?

Do you isolate your spouse's challenges from yours and say "that's their headache" or do you embrace it as yours?

Do you disrespect your spouse and think you're being vindictive, not knowing whatever you do to your spouse you do to yourself?

A marriage is a vulnerable-no-secrets-no-shame zone!

It's an OUR zone.

"The Lord God used the man's rib to make a woman. He brought the woman to the man.

Then the man said, ‘Finally, this is someone who is right for me. She has bones that are taken from my bones. Her body comes from my body. I will call her “woman” because God used me, a man, to make her.’

Because of this, when a man marries, he leaves his father and his mother. Instead, God joins the man and his wife together. The two people become as one body.

The man and his wife were not wearing any clothes. But they did not feel ashamed.

Genesis 2:22‭-‬25 EASY

Love is always a choice...🤗

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